Eating Solutions

by Brenda Dapkus

As a caregiver in an Alzheimer's specialty care facility, it was one of my tasks to assist in the feeding of residents. In some instances, it was an extremely difficult task. What can you do when the resident just won't eat? Read on for simple solutions to this frustrating and health-threatening problem.

I had residents who would eat anything sweet, but refused to eat anything else. With Alzheimer's disease, it is not uncommon for some to lose their sense of taste, and when that happens, their taste for sweets is the last to go. It would not be very interesting to be fed something tasteless. The solution?

Drizzle some honey or syrup over their food, and see if their appetite suddenly perks up. Yes, I know it doesn't seem to be the most nutritional alternative, but it will get them to eat. Mealtime can be frustrating and not very enjoyable for them or for you as the caregiver. Another consideration at mealtimes is color. If you are using white or very pale dinnerware, try using a primary color, or any bright, vivid color. Utensils are available that have big handles and the spoon and fork end turn sideways, so they can feed themselves longer. Plates are available that has a raised wall on one end of the plate, so that they can pick up food without spilling it on the table. There are many other adaptive devices and can be found at The Alzheimer's Store.

Another deterrent to eating is clutter on the table, and can cause unecessary distraction. Put just the plate, glass and silverware on the table. To keep the plate from sliding around, put some of that rubbery shelf and drawer liner under the plate. It really works!

For some who feed can themselves but doesn't want to eat at mealtime, try lots of snacks using finger foods. You can find nutritious snacks, and feeding themselves is an accomplishment; a sense of control. After all, we don't want anyone dictating when and what we should eat. Nutritious, appealing food is more important than traditional timetables and the four-square meal.

Being an Alzheimer's caregiver is more detective work than anything else. Find what works, and that success will make one less obstacle for you and your loved one.